Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Moments of Beauty
It's 2am on Wednesday morning Haley, Kevin, Trent and I are sitting with Jerry in his room as the dialysis machine sighs while cleaning Jerry's blood. Sherri has done a masterful job in updating everyone on Jerry's condition, but for those of you who aren't here to witness it there have been some really beautiful moments that I want to share. The Cahill clan took over one of the waiting rooms in the ICU for the last several days. It is full of loved ones 24 hours a day with people sleeping on the floor and under the furniture to avoid the glare of the lights that don't turn off. You don't realize how wide a path Jerry has made until you see the many different people who have come to him, family, friends, young, old all brought together by their love for this special guy. Then there are the moments, a father lovingly shaving his stricken son, a sister arranging stuffed animals and pictures, a friend swabbing Jerry's dry mouth with Diet Coke, friends arriving with homemade dinner for the entire group, a lawyer friend setting his own emotions aside to help guide Jerry through the legal maze of his situation, an expectant sister spending her third night sleeping on the hospital floor and then feeling guilty when she had to leave to go to the ER to care for her own health issues, a child sharing his fifth birthday with his favorite uncle in the ICU, a mother assuring her son with a kiss, the way he responds to someone holding his hand, or grandma margy taking on babysitting duties so the exhausted dads can take their shift to comfort their brother-in-law . The room overflows with symbols of love sent from every corner of the country. Everyday we take time to read the blog posts and cards aloud and are constantly reminded of the love and good carma coming are way. I just thought you should all know that no little gesture goes overlooked, even in the midst of these very difficult times the Cahill family has stuck together like glue. Its been and honor and a privileged to witness people rising to the occasion and creating these moments of beauty.
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Beautifully said, Scott.
ReplyDelete== Charley
Scott
ReplyDeleteI agree with Charley above, beautifully said, Scott. The Cahill family is a close knit family that one can kept help but be drawn to. They love you unconditionally. Minus a few "brownie points" here and there!!! I love all of you. You are in our hearts and prayers.
Jerry has an amazing support system. Many people in similar situations would be envious. Your love is overflowing and it shows. Stay strong.
ReplyDeleteContinued prayers.
Scott, what a wonderful job. Sherri thank you also for keeping everyone informed. I know it takes alot of strength to write about everything that is going on. Stay strong. Hugs and kisses for everyone. God bless you all. Tootie
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing blessing to have such a phenomenal support system, not only for Jerry but for each other as well. I have only met most of the Cahill family a few times but knowing what an extraordinary person Tanya is, I know how special this family's bond is and I can only imagine the strength you have when you pull together. I can just picture all of these beautiful moments....what great memories you are building!! We are all still praying for a miracle!! Give Tanya a hug for us!! With love, Ashley Burchert and Family
ReplyDeleteThank you for posting this, Scott. It helps those of us who are not there have a better picture of the surroundings and happenings. The Cahills are an amazing family. Just look at how much Jerry has impacted so many people! Obviously, Ken and Marilyn have raised some beautiful, strong, funny and loving children. Jerry is one of five incredible siblings. If Ken and Marilyn ever needed to get an affirmation on their parenting skills, they've got it now. My love to the Cahill family,
ReplyDeleteNanci Ferguson Young
awwww i love this family. your all in my prayers!
ReplyDeletebeing around all of you makes me feel at home with all the love that is shown to everyone. lots of love:)